Issues @ Taska/Skul/Nursery/Daycare

We send our Safiyyah to a daycare provided by my company. To be specific, Taska Sime Darby. Few weeks ago, 1 parent emailed to all the parents in the mailing list about his son has been bullied by other tods in the daycare. The boy age 1 yr+. There was a few bitten n scracthes cases in the daycare. Almaklum la....budak2 baya tu yg tgh membesar dan tgh nk tumbuh gigi.

So, few mothers reply to that email including me. To me, no such thing a bully case at their age. Normal la kan to those kids. It is part and parcel of life as long as they are not having serious injury (no fracture, internal injury etc2222.....)

I told them that i am so thankful to have them to take care of my daughter. I admit that sometimes they lack of few minor things (lambat tukar nappy ended up the baby had nappy rash) To me, i just ignore the simple thing. If the nappy rash occur, i will ask them to put the medicated cream on n the problem settled. After that the story ends there. I think the manager has resolved the matter with the specific parents.

Last week, someone has told me that my email has been publicly published in a blog. I thought that the blog was written by a mother whose her baby is sent there. Unfortunately i found out that she has no longer sent her baby there and i don't even know her as when i sent my little pumpkin there, the baby was not in the taska. So, why bother? who are you to quote my email in your blog? So i called her and ask her favour to remove my email from her blog. She told me that she is not satisfy with the Taska's personnel. To me, it was her problem with the taska. Me takmo masuk campur. Kalo blh setel elok2. This is not appropriate when u simply quoted someone's email in your blog without the person's permission, without her/his knowledge n without his/her consent. (Kalo hangpa sure hangpa bengang gak)

After that so called 'conversation', she removed my email and the whole content of the posting. And added a new posting sounded so 'bengang' at me. After that bengang posting, another 'bengang' posting specially dedicated to me. Siap mendoakan kalo2 anak aku di timpa musibah kt taska, her words sounded like nak tepuk tgn padan muka kt aku la....

My conversation with her begin....


Me : Hi XXX, I am CheYah.....just want to know if the mummynbaby blog is yours?

Her : Yes, the blog is mine. y?

Me : I just found out that u quoted my email in ur blog. So sorry, but i dont feel comfortable about it. Can u remove my email from the posting?

Her : No. Your email is not there. It's already deleted

Me : The one that you delete was my email address but my name and the whole content of the email is there. Sejibik sejiban email i u copy. How can u said my email is not there (DIA NIH PAHAM KER DAK APA AKU CKP ARR?)

Her : Ok2....if you said so, i will delete that. I delete the whole entry.

Me : U quoted my email in ur blog without my consent, without my knowledge n without my permission makes me uncomfortable. I don't know what had happened between u n the taska as when i send my baby there, u already stop sending ur baby to the taska. So what's ur problem? I also have a blog but i don't simply quoted other peoples' words in my blog without their consent. N besides my contact is there. Why don't u call n inform me 1st?

Her : U know...they never say sorry for what had happened.....my baby felt sick yada....yada.....yada

Me : That is ur problem with the taska. Ur free to write whatever u want to but do not involves me in this. The email which i sent is only meant for internal discussion among the parents. Not to be circulated to outsiders. Besides i am using official email, not my personal. So before i made an official report to the authority, i think it is better for me to talk to u personally and if the email is still there, i will make the official report.

Her : Ok2...i dah delete dah the posting.
Me : If u tak puas hati, y don't u talk to the taska? or make a complaint?

Her : Susah la....the manager is ex-JKM

Me : Apa plak susahnya...u have the right

Her : I made a complaint before, tapi ya la kan...agaknya i x pandai ckp kot

Me : U write a good blog (yes, i admit that she has a very beautiful blog) why don't you write an official report? Make a police report n a written report to the JKM. Let them investigate

Her : Tak guna la buat report pun. Takpa la....

Me : So XXX, as i want my email to be removed from your blog, thanks for your favor for doing so.

I wonder why she interprate my simple english differ that what i meant...i told her that i don't want to know the problem as she can solve with the taska on her own. Kalo tak puas hati jugak, she should make a report. If i am in her shoes, dah sah2 menda nih dh smpi ke menteri n silap2 masuk TV. Use your right. Apa nak takut kalo kita di pihak yg benar. Takat kutuk2 dlm blog tak jadi apa2 n besides the reader may have the wrong impression n mula la mak2 fobia nak hantar anak pi daycare.


To that mother......

I know how hard time you have while your baby was sick. I had more than that since a second my baby was born. I saw her dying, i saw her heart beat stop, i saw her motionless asking me to be with her, i saw her entire body with wires, i saw her being intubated, i saw her nose bleed due to anemia n blood transfusion, i saw her weight dropped day by day. I was afraid that she may blind, i was afraid that she may suffer with internal injury, i was afraid that she had brain damaged.

You should be thankful that you know she is healthy while she was born. I can only pray for her safety the moment she was out from my tummy. I can only touch n see her after 48 hours i gave birth to her. I only managed to hold n kiss her after 44 days she was brought to this world.

You should be thankful that she's gonna live forever while i was giving up to god that i am ready to let her go as i can't bear to see her condition worsened.

You should be thankful that you can breastfeed her as fast as 5 seconds when she was out from your tummy while i only managed to breastfeed her after 55 days she was born.

You should be thankful that you may not need to worry about her at all as she was with you the minute she was born while i was praying and crying every second while she was away from me for 60 days.

Your suffer was only 30% than i've ever had. So please don't misjudged me and don't pray for any incidents that may injure my baby as she had enough while she was born 13 months ago. I never do such thing to you but just asking ur favour to remove my email quoted in your blog.

So please, stop hoping and praying such thing for me as i never had that in my mind for your baby. I had more than what u had with the eczema on your baby so don't say that i don't feel it!!!

Raya....

We had a very good raya eventhough had to travel back to KL earlier just to attend wedding in Jengka which only took half a day merely 7 hours including travelling time....sighhhhh.......what a wasting......hati mama yg memberontak dan membengkak dek kerana wedding nih.....tp terpaksa la berkorban for the other half......(pa...u owe me this time, okkehhhhh!!!!!)

Here some pics of our little pumpkin with her tok,nyang,angah n the rest of our family...malas dh nk citer pjg2...lgpun syawal dh habih.......(biziz punya pasai xdan nk uplod pic....) soooo...enjoyyyyy.......

Bergaya di pagi raya

3 of us

Senyum sejemput

With tok n nyang

Tak sukaaaaaa.............angah kaco

Cucu toklang.....(she is the only baby whom my uncle carry n cuddles his entire life)

Tatak (kakak) dura n uda

The ZARS with the juniors

Anak Papa

With tok n cousin

Mama is busy.........

I've been busy at work assisting my team to do a very big project which we called it project 'G'. So yesterday we had a signing ceremony on this big project.

Here are some news on the local newspaper. Pic will be posted soon as mama is so tired. I need a very good holiday.....mana mau pigi daa?? X pi holiday tp pi spa pon ok gaks :D

From Berita Harian (written by a friend of mine....tq Abg Ayam... ;)) )

Sime Darby terbit sekuriti Islam RM4.5b

Oleh Kamarulzaidi Kamis
kamarulzaidi@bharian.com.my

SIME Darby Bhd semalam memeterai perjanjian bagi menerbitkan sekuriti Islam bernilai RM4.5 bilion bagi membiayai aktiviti pengambilalihan, perbelanjaan modal dan keperluan modal kerjanya.

Konglomerat itu melantik Maybank Investment Bank Bhd sebagai penasihat utama, pengatur induk dan pengurus bersama terbitan itu yang membabitkan Program Nota Islam Bertempoh Sederhana (IMTN) berjumlah sehingga RM4.5 bilion dan Program Kertas Komersial Islam(ICP)/IMTN berjumlah sehingga RM500 juta dengan had terkumpul bagi kedua-dua terbitan itu adalah sebanyak RM4.5 bilion.

Majlis memeterai perjanjian bagi terbitan itu disempurnakan di Kuala Lumpur semalam.

Pada majlis itu Sime Darby diwakili Presiden dan Ketua Eksekutifnya, Datuk Seri Zubir Murshid dan Ketua Pegawai Kewangannya, Tong Poh Kew, manakala kumpulan Maybank diwakili Presiden dan Ketua Eksekutif Kumpulan Maybank, Datuk Seri Abdul Wahid Omar serta Pengarah Urusan dan Ketua Pasaran Hutang Maybank Investment, John Chong.

Hadir sama pengurus bersama lain terbitan itu iaitu CIMB Bhd yang diwakili Timbalan Ketua Eksekutifnya, Lee Kok Wan; Pubic Bank Bhd oleh Pengarah Urusannya, Tan Sri Teh Ah Lek dan Ketua Eksekutif Public Investment Bank Bhd, Teoh Cheng Soon.

Abdul Wahid dalam kenyataan yang dikeluarkan Maybank berkata, kumpulan perbankan itu berbesar hati diberi kepercayaan mengu-ruskan terbitan itu dan membantu dalam memenuhi keperluan pembiayaan jangka sederhana dan panjang Sime Darby.

“Kekukuhan penarafan AAA yang diberikan kepada program terbitan hutang Islam itu menggambarkan kedudukan Sime Darby sebagai konglomerat peneraju dan syarikat perladangan terbesar global yang tersenarai di pasaran saham.

“Kami juga yakin program itu akan menyuntik modal ke dalam pasaran modal tempatan dan meningkatkan ia sejajar dengan inisiatif kerajaan sebagai pusat kewangan Islam terkemuka global menerusi Pusat Kewangan Islam Antarabangsa Malaysia (MIFC),” katanya.

Abdul Wahid juga yakin bahawa pelabur akan mendapati nota yang diterbitkan di bawah program hutang Islam itu adalah pelaburan bernilai bagi portfolio dan strategi pelaburan mereka.

“Program terbitan Islam itu disusun berasaskan prinsip Musyarakah yang diterima secara meluas dan popular di kalangan peserta pasaran modal tempatan dan global,” katanya.

From The Star

Thursday October 15, 2009

Lead managers sign pact for RM4.5b Islamic programmes

KUALA LUMPUR: Maybank Investment Bank Bhd, the lead arranger for Sime Darby Bhd’s Islamic debt issues that amounted to RM4.5bil, announced yesterday the signing of the programmes with joint lead managers CIMB Group and Public Investment Bank Bhd.

The programme was approved by the Securities Commission on Sept 24.

“The Islamic programme is structured based on the widely accepted Islamic finance principle of Musyarakah, which is very popular with local and international capital market players,” Maybank president and chief executive officer Datuk Seri Abdul Wahid Omar said in the statement.

He said the strength of the AAA-rated Islamic programmes reflect Sime Darby’s position as a leading conglomerate and the world’s largest listed oil palm plantation group.

Datuk Seri Abdul Wahid Omar (left) exchanging documents with Sime Darby president and group chief executive Datuk Seri Ahmad Zubir Murshid. – Maybank pic

He expressed confidence that investors would find the notes issued under the Islamic programmes a “premier investment and a valuable contribution to their bond portfolio and investment strategy.”

Proceeds from the exercise would be utilised to finance Sime Darby’s acquisitions and capital expenditure, working capital, as well as to refinance certain debts obligations.

Kawan, sahabat dan teman

Dah lama aku nak menulis tentang tajuk ni tapi masanya belum tiba. Dan mungkin juga kerana aku masih belum ada kekuatan untuk menulis tentang ini.

Aku ada seorang kawan dan bagi aku dia masih seorang kawan....macam dulu....bezanya kami pernah ada perbalahan setahun yang lalu. Punca awalnya kerana aku berselindung akan sesuatu. Bagi aku, bukan salah aku kerana berahsia. Aku ingin menjaga hati kawan tersebut. Akan tetapi sikap berahsia aku ketika itu disalah ertikan hingga aku dituduh membelakangkan kawan. Mana mungkin aku bercerita dengannya ketika itu kerana aku tahu dia seorang yang sensitif. Terlalu sensitif. Untuk mengelakkan berlakunya kes rajuk yang tak sudah, elok saja aku berdiam diri. Tapi lain pula jadinya. Makin teruk rajuknya hinggakan pada ketika itu aku ditimpa musibah sedikit pun tidak di ambil peduli. Kawankah itu?

Akhirnya kami berkonfrantasi selepas beberapa bulan hal itu berlaku. Kedua-duanya tidak mahu mengakui kesalahan diri. Kata suamiku, aku terlalu menurut hati. Kawan tetap kawan walaupun baik atau buruk.

Baru-baru ini aku terdengar dia ada perancangan yang besar. Tidak ku bertanya kerana mungkin itu terlalu peribadi baginya hinggakan tidak mahu berkongsi dengan aku padahal kisah itu ditatapi semua.Aku tunggu dia berbicara dahulu sebelum aku bertanya. Bagiku, dia ada alasan sendiri tidak mahu bercerita pada kawan yang seorang ini. Itu aku hormati. Tak mengapa, nanti sampai masanya dia akan bercerita juga. Aku menanti dan masih menanti saat itu. Tidak susah untuk memahami dan menghormati pendirian seorang kawan. Beranggapan baik dengan tindakannya sudah memadai. Tapi kenapa dia tidak boleh beranggapan seperti itu padaku dahulu? Salah aku kah itu?

Kalau diikutkan hati panasku, tak ingin aku ada kawan sepertinya lagi. Tapi akal warasku memujuk....dia masih seorang kawan, seorang teman dan seorang sahabatku...hormati apa jua tindakannya dan terima dia seadanya.....

~ ada kala kesilapan seseorang tercipta tanpa disedari, begitu juga ada kala kita memaafkan kesalahan orang pun tanpa kita sedari juga~ (sepi pun datang....oct 2009)