My Little Pumpkin

Anak aku ni semakin besar semakin la melampau2 notty nya. Hampir setiap tengah malam dia bangun dan mula tunjuk perasaan sebab nak tidoq dgn mama n papa. Tak kira la time tu panas ka sejuk ka.Sebelum ni kami ingatkan dia takleh lena sebab panas. So, papa pun install la aircond kat rumah. Ye la kan...dah ada rumah sendiri boleh la pasang aircond ka, tv besar gabak ka, sumer boleh lah.(soon i will write about this). Memandangkan tuan puteri kembang semangkuk tu panas, maka papa pun pasang la aircond sepjg malam. End up mama ni berbungkus cam lepat pisang dah (i cannot tahan the coldness of the aircond). Akan tetapi, keadaan hanya berubah sementara jer. Tgh mlm buta dia akan bangun pastu campak soother ke bawah pastu mula la melalak mengada2 nak suh org amik. Padahal katil dia dgn katil papa n mama x sampai pun setengah meter jauhnya. So mama pun kesian n angkat dia tido sekatil kat tengah2. Last2 dua2 beranak 'konker' katil tu n mama tidoq sikit ja kat tepi...uhuk....uhuk.....

Other than that, dia tersangat la sibuk nak mencekau glasses mama n papa. Sapa2 yg mengadap muka dia maka org tu punya glasses jadik mangsa. Dia akan tarik terus glasses tu dan sibuk plak la nak pakai kat mata dia....sabaq satno sayang.....later u'll be like both of us. Ada mata extra.

Masa umur 6 bulan dulu, dia takmo makan solid langsung sampai la umur dia 12 bulan September yg lepas. Baru la nak makan. Dah tu sumer apa yg blh di makan dia nak belasah. Mama pun dengan senang hati bangun pagi2 masa bekal. Segala maknikam resipi mama try. Pasta la, minestrone la,mashed potato n pumpkin la, But most of the time misti la banyak sayur dan kureng daging/ayam. So far seafood tak penah la lagi mama try. Luckily dia tak suka processed food. Dia prefer cooked food. Sungguh demand ini budak. Dan tersangat la tak suka makanan masam termasuk la orange, scott's emulsion orange flavour n vit c. Sungguh la susah nak paksa dia mkn scott's.

2 hari lepas dah start mendaki 2 anak tangga rumah tok mama kat s alam. Masa tu mama tgh tunggu aunty wan pi miting kat skolah. Hadoi laaaaaaaaaa.........kepeningan mama nihhh.......ada dak sapa2 nak tolong babysit anak mama yg sorg ni tah....mama n pi holiday ngn papa la.... :D...hantaq kat tok la...bley? ;))

Benda yg paling dia suka adalah ayer...kalo mandi dalam besen tu habih la basah 1 dunia. (I still bathe her in the basin...for safety reason). Bila mama nk bwk pi swimming tah la.....

That's all for now....sebenaqnya nak tunjuk pic dia yg skit punya tahan muka masa kitaorg trykan dia sunglasses comel kat carrefour 2 minggu lepas. Thinking of buying 1 for her...kalo dak dok kaco glasses mama n papa....hancoq spek baru mama plak satgi. :D

Yg ni x best la mama....

Haaaaa......yg ni best....retro skit....tapi x muat tang idung laaaaa.....

Pic courtesy of Abg Jay

Dream

I had few series of dream 2 weeks ago. One night i had a dream that i am pregnant and i can see my tummy growing bigger and bigger. The other night i while i was sleeping, i was dreaming i went to shop for babies items. Bought a moses basket, babycot, nappy etc222. After 2 days i was dreaming that i am heavily pregnant during my niece's wedding. Aiyyakkkkkkkk..........my niece is getting married on Jan 1st 2011. How arrr????

I've been thinking whether we, not we, whether i am ready for a second baby. As my little pumpkin is getting naughtier day by day, i feel like i need another year of break before having another one. Let me rest for a while ya, Pa!

But the most important thing is i need to go for a treatment before having another one to avoid pre term labour again. I can't afford to go through all this for another time. 

Deep in my heart, i can't wait to have another baby again. To see him/her grows in my tummy amd to feel what my friend call 'montot sebesar mangkuk tandas' and to feel everything all over again. I miss the time when my little pumpkin sleep on my chest everynite before i put her on her bed, i miss the time when i put her in my sling and cling her around and this time i want to breastfeed my baby until he/she reaches 2 years of age. Getting pregnant and having a baby is the most wonderful thing i've ever had in my life.( I should not tell this to my hubby as he is definately ready at any time :D)  

Gambar hiasan....aku xtau mana aku cilok pic nih

~Kadang2 kita asik melihat dan mempertikaikan kelemahan org lain sedangkan kelemahan sendiri dilindung2. Seeloknya pelihara diri dan keluarga sendiri kerana kita masih kekurangan. Tiada yang lebih.Jangan asyik menghitung kelemahan orang lain kerana kelemahan diri sendiri tidak terhitung.~

Nihon-go

I started to know about Japan since i was a little girl. Couldn't recall when was it but i think maybe it was 20+ years back. I knew it through my beloved uncle. He did his first degree till his PHD abroad and later when he came back he became a lecturer in USM, Penang. Since then, I always told people that i wanted to be like Pak Ngah, studied abroad, being a Professor at a very young age....yada...yada....yada.....

Later when i was 16, in November 1995 i was chosen to join a student exchange programme between the Ministry of Education and Hyogo Education Board. I was so excited to be in Japan and it was autumn that time. Since then, i started to learn Nihon-go but it was just a "main-main". I was not so serious until i did my bachelor degree and did my Japanese language for my third language class. My result was quite okay that time with 2 B+ and 1 A for 3 semester course.

After that i forgot almost everything until 2 weeks ago when one of my colleague attend Nihon-go class. I asked him to get the same book and started to learn the hiragana again. I talk to my princess in Nihon-go everyday to get her to know other language besides Malay,English and Arabic (her papa taught her few arabic words). She seems understands those words. The few words are :

Ohayo
Konniciwa
Abunai
Miruku o nomimasu
Asa gohan o tabemasu
Daijobu
Teribi
Otosan
Okasan

We also do the simple counting one to 10. Luckily my husband did not object for what i've been doing to our little princess. It is good for her to explore new things in her life. I wish i could do some flashcards for her so that both of us can learn Nihon-go.

Until today, i can write 15 characters in Hiragana. I know that is not much but at least i started to learn something as perhaps 1 days i could get a scholarship to do my MBA in Japan. Who knows.......my wish could come true. As my friend always told me......."Kalau takdak angan2, takkan jadi KLCC tu"

My hiragana.....it is not as good as grade 1 kids but seems ok la i think....drp xtau langsung kan....

Good News....sad ending

Met my former boss who is now heading one of the co in Motor wing few weeks ago. I was told by someone that he needs an assistant. To me it is one in a life time opportunity and i am ready to grab and work with him.

After the short conversation, he called me a week after to offer me the post and last week spoke to HR head of the co. I think it is about time for me to explore new things within the same group but in another division.

Being the smallest team in the department, only 5 of us in the funding team make us very close to each other. My mind told me that i should accept the offer from my former boss but part of my heart wants me to be here with this small tiny team. After having some words with my dear husband, i decided to move on and join the former boss.

Unfortunately, there was a very serious thing happened last week which one of the senior in the team had to leave for another department. It was chaotic as we are shorthanded and my boss was not in a good condition. She was so sad and panic since past 2 weeks as the senior person is leaving the team and at the moment we won't be able to get a replacement.

On the other hand, me who wants to leave had to retract my decision as if i left at the same time, our team will be 'patah kaki'. I am so sad that i had to turn down the offer which i've been waiting for since he left the department to Motor division but maybe it is not my 'rezeki' to work with him.

Still thinking how should i tell him about this.................me is so stress now....aduiiiiiiii!!!!!!!!!!!

Issues @ Taska/Skul/Nursery/Daycare

We send our Safiyyah to a daycare provided by my company. To be specific, Taska Sime Darby. Few weeks ago, 1 parent emailed to all the parents in the mailing list about his son has been bullied by other tods in the daycare. The boy age 1 yr+. There was a few bitten n scracthes cases in the daycare. Almaklum la....budak2 baya tu yg tgh membesar dan tgh nk tumbuh gigi.

So, few mothers reply to that email including me. To me, no such thing a bully case at their age. Normal la kan to those kids. It is part and parcel of life as long as they are not having serious injury (no fracture, internal injury etc2222.....)

I told them that i am so thankful to have them to take care of my daughter. I admit that sometimes they lack of few minor things (lambat tukar nappy ended up the baby had nappy rash) To me, i just ignore the simple thing. If the nappy rash occur, i will ask them to put the medicated cream on n the problem settled. After that the story ends there. I think the manager has resolved the matter with the specific parents.

Last week, someone has told me that my email has been publicly published in a blog. I thought that the blog was written by a mother whose her baby is sent there. Unfortunately i found out that she has no longer sent her baby there and i don't even know her as when i sent my little pumpkin there, the baby was not in the taska. So, why bother? who are you to quote my email in your blog? So i called her and ask her favour to remove my email from her blog. She told me that she is not satisfy with the Taska's personnel. To me, it was her problem with the taska. Me takmo masuk campur. Kalo blh setel elok2. This is not appropriate when u simply quoted someone's email in your blog without the person's permission, without her/his knowledge n without his/her consent. (Kalo hangpa sure hangpa bengang gak)

After that so called 'conversation', she removed my email and the whole content of the posting. And added a new posting sounded so 'bengang' at me. After that bengang posting, another 'bengang' posting specially dedicated to me. Siap mendoakan kalo2 anak aku di timpa musibah kt taska, her words sounded like nak tepuk tgn padan muka kt aku la....

My conversation with her begin....


Me : Hi XXX, I am CheYah.....just want to know if the mummynbaby blog is yours?

Her : Yes, the blog is mine. y?

Me : I just found out that u quoted my email in ur blog. So sorry, but i dont feel comfortable about it. Can u remove my email from the posting?

Her : No. Your email is not there. It's already deleted

Me : The one that you delete was my email address but my name and the whole content of the email is there. Sejibik sejiban email i u copy. How can u said my email is not there (DIA NIH PAHAM KER DAK APA AKU CKP ARR?)

Her : Ok2....if you said so, i will delete that. I delete the whole entry.

Me : U quoted my email in ur blog without my consent, without my knowledge n without my permission makes me uncomfortable. I don't know what had happened between u n the taska as when i send my baby there, u already stop sending ur baby to the taska. So what's ur problem? I also have a blog but i don't simply quoted other peoples' words in my blog without their consent. N besides my contact is there. Why don't u call n inform me 1st?

Her : U know...they never say sorry for what had happened.....my baby felt sick yada....yada.....yada

Me : That is ur problem with the taska. Ur free to write whatever u want to but do not involves me in this. The email which i sent is only meant for internal discussion among the parents. Not to be circulated to outsiders. Besides i am using official email, not my personal. So before i made an official report to the authority, i think it is better for me to talk to u personally and if the email is still there, i will make the official report.

Her : Ok2...i dah delete dah the posting.
Me : If u tak puas hati, y don't u talk to the taska? or make a complaint?

Her : Susah la....the manager is ex-JKM

Me : Apa plak susahnya...u have the right

Her : I made a complaint before, tapi ya la kan...agaknya i x pandai ckp kot

Me : U write a good blog (yes, i admit that she has a very beautiful blog) why don't you write an official report? Make a police report n a written report to the JKM. Let them investigate

Her : Tak guna la buat report pun. Takpa la....

Me : So XXX, as i want my email to be removed from your blog, thanks for your favor for doing so.

I wonder why she interprate my simple english differ that what i meant...i told her that i don't want to know the problem as she can solve with the taska on her own. Kalo tak puas hati jugak, she should make a report. If i am in her shoes, dah sah2 menda nih dh smpi ke menteri n silap2 masuk TV. Use your right. Apa nak takut kalo kita di pihak yg benar. Takat kutuk2 dlm blog tak jadi apa2 n besides the reader may have the wrong impression n mula la mak2 fobia nak hantar anak pi daycare.


To that mother......

I know how hard time you have while your baby was sick. I had more than that since a second my baby was born. I saw her dying, i saw her heart beat stop, i saw her motionless asking me to be with her, i saw her entire body with wires, i saw her being intubated, i saw her nose bleed due to anemia n blood transfusion, i saw her weight dropped day by day. I was afraid that she may blind, i was afraid that she may suffer with internal injury, i was afraid that she had brain damaged.

You should be thankful that you know she is healthy while she was born. I can only pray for her safety the moment she was out from my tummy. I can only touch n see her after 48 hours i gave birth to her. I only managed to hold n kiss her after 44 days she was brought to this world.

You should be thankful that she's gonna live forever while i was giving up to god that i am ready to let her go as i can't bear to see her condition worsened.

You should be thankful that you can breastfeed her as fast as 5 seconds when she was out from your tummy while i only managed to breastfeed her after 55 days she was born.

You should be thankful that you may not need to worry about her at all as she was with you the minute she was born while i was praying and crying every second while she was away from me for 60 days.

Your suffer was only 30% than i've ever had. So please don't misjudged me and don't pray for any incidents that may injure my baby as she had enough while she was born 13 months ago. I never do such thing to you but just asking ur favour to remove my email quoted in your blog.

So please, stop hoping and praying such thing for me as i never had that in my mind for your baby. I had more than what u had with the eczema on your baby so don't say that i don't feel it!!!

Raya....

We had a very good raya eventhough had to travel back to KL earlier just to attend wedding in Jengka which only took half a day merely 7 hours including travelling time....sighhhhh.......what a wasting......hati mama yg memberontak dan membengkak dek kerana wedding nih.....tp terpaksa la berkorban for the other half......(pa...u owe me this time, okkehhhhh!!!!!)

Here some pics of our little pumpkin with her tok,nyang,angah n the rest of our family...malas dh nk citer pjg2...lgpun syawal dh habih.......(biziz punya pasai xdan nk uplod pic....) soooo...enjoyyyyy.......

Bergaya di pagi raya

3 of us

Senyum sejemput

With tok n nyang

Tak sukaaaaaa.............angah kaco

Cucu toklang.....(she is the only baby whom my uncle carry n cuddles his entire life)

Tatak (kakak) dura n uda

The ZARS with the juniors

Anak Papa

With tok n cousin

Mama is busy.........

I've been busy at work assisting my team to do a very big project which we called it project 'G'. So yesterday we had a signing ceremony on this big project.

Here are some news on the local newspaper. Pic will be posted soon as mama is so tired. I need a very good holiday.....mana mau pigi daa?? X pi holiday tp pi spa pon ok gaks :D

From Berita Harian (written by a friend of mine....tq Abg Ayam... ;)) )

Sime Darby terbit sekuriti Islam RM4.5b

Oleh Kamarulzaidi Kamis
kamarulzaidi@bharian.com.my

SIME Darby Bhd semalam memeterai perjanjian bagi menerbitkan sekuriti Islam bernilai RM4.5 bilion bagi membiayai aktiviti pengambilalihan, perbelanjaan modal dan keperluan modal kerjanya.

Konglomerat itu melantik Maybank Investment Bank Bhd sebagai penasihat utama, pengatur induk dan pengurus bersama terbitan itu yang membabitkan Program Nota Islam Bertempoh Sederhana (IMTN) berjumlah sehingga RM4.5 bilion dan Program Kertas Komersial Islam(ICP)/IMTN berjumlah sehingga RM500 juta dengan had terkumpul bagi kedua-dua terbitan itu adalah sebanyak RM4.5 bilion.

Majlis memeterai perjanjian bagi terbitan itu disempurnakan di Kuala Lumpur semalam.

Pada majlis itu Sime Darby diwakili Presiden dan Ketua Eksekutifnya, Datuk Seri Zubir Murshid dan Ketua Pegawai Kewangannya, Tong Poh Kew, manakala kumpulan Maybank diwakili Presiden dan Ketua Eksekutif Kumpulan Maybank, Datuk Seri Abdul Wahid Omar serta Pengarah Urusan dan Ketua Pasaran Hutang Maybank Investment, John Chong.

Hadir sama pengurus bersama lain terbitan itu iaitu CIMB Bhd yang diwakili Timbalan Ketua Eksekutifnya, Lee Kok Wan; Pubic Bank Bhd oleh Pengarah Urusannya, Tan Sri Teh Ah Lek dan Ketua Eksekutif Public Investment Bank Bhd, Teoh Cheng Soon.

Abdul Wahid dalam kenyataan yang dikeluarkan Maybank berkata, kumpulan perbankan itu berbesar hati diberi kepercayaan mengu-ruskan terbitan itu dan membantu dalam memenuhi keperluan pembiayaan jangka sederhana dan panjang Sime Darby.

“Kekukuhan penarafan AAA yang diberikan kepada program terbitan hutang Islam itu menggambarkan kedudukan Sime Darby sebagai konglomerat peneraju dan syarikat perladangan terbesar global yang tersenarai di pasaran saham.

“Kami juga yakin program itu akan menyuntik modal ke dalam pasaran modal tempatan dan meningkatkan ia sejajar dengan inisiatif kerajaan sebagai pusat kewangan Islam terkemuka global menerusi Pusat Kewangan Islam Antarabangsa Malaysia (MIFC),” katanya.

Abdul Wahid juga yakin bahawa pelabur akan mendapati nota yang diterbitkan di bawah program hutang Islam itu adalah pelaburan bernilai bagi portfolio dan strategi pelaburan mereka.

“Program terbitan Islam itu disusun berasaskan prinsip Musyarakah yang diterima secara meluas dan popular di kalangan peserta pasaran modal tempatan dan global,” katanya.

From The Star

Thursday October 15, 2009

Lead managers sign pact for RM4.5b Islamic programmes

KUALA LUMPUR: Maybank Investment Bank Bhd, the lead arranger for Sime Darby Bhd’s Islamic debt issues that amounted to RM4.5bil, announced yesterday the signing of the programmes with joint lead managers CIMB Group and Public Investment Bank Bhd.

The programme was approved by the Securities Commission on Sept 24.

“The Islamic programme is structured based on the widely accepted Islamic finance principle of Musyarakah, which is very popular with local and international capital market players,” Maybank president and chief executive officer Datuk Seri Abdul Wahid Omar said in the statement.

He said the strength of the AAA-rated Islamic programmes reflect Sime Darby’s position as a leading conglomerate and the world’s largest listed oil palm plantation group.

Datuk Seri Abdul Wahid Omar (left) exchanging documents with Sime Darby president and group chief executive Datuk Seri Ahmad Zubir Murshid. – Maybank pic

He expressed confidence that investors would find the notes issued under the Islamic programmes a “premier investment and a valuable contribution to their bond portfolio and investment strategy.”

Proceeds from the exercise would be utilised to finance Sime Darby’s acquisitions and capital expenditure, working capital, as well as to refinance certain debts obligations.

Kawan, sahabat dan teman

Dah lama aku nak menulis tentang tajuk ni tapi masanya belum tiba. Dan mungkin juga kerana aku masih belum ada kekuatan untuk menulis tentang ini.

Aku ada seorang kawan dan bagi aku dia masih seorang kawan....macam dulu....bezanya kami pernah ada perbalahan setahun yang lalu. Punca awalnya kerana aku berselindung akan sesuatu. Bagi aku, bukan salah aku kerana berahsia. Aku ingin menjaga hati kawan tersebut. Akan tetapi sikap berahsia aku ketika itu disalah ertikan hingga aku dituduh membelakangkan kawan. Mana mungkin aku bercerita dengannya ketika itu kerana aku tahu dia seorang yang sensitif. Terlalu sensitif. Untuk mengelakkan berlakunya kes rajuk yang tak sudah, elok saja aku berdiam diri. Tapi lain pula jadinya. Makin teruk rajuknya hinggakan pada ketika itu aku ditimpa musibah sedikit pun tidak di ambil peduli. Kawankah itu?

Akhirnya kami berkonfrantasi selepas beberapa bulan hal itu berlaku. Kedua-duanya tidak mahu mengakui kesalahan diri. Kata suamiku, aku terlalu menurut hati. Kawan tetap kawan walaupun baik atau buruk.

Baru-baru ini aku terdengar dia ada perancangan yang besar. Tidak ku bertanya kerana mungkin itu terlalu peribadi baginya hinggakan tidak mahu berkongsi dengan aku padahal kisah itu ditatapi semua.Aku tunggu dia berbicara dahulu sebelum aku bertanya. Bagiku, dia ada alasan sendiri tidak mahu bercerita pada kawan yang seorang ini. Itu aku hormati. Tak mengapa, nanti sampai masanya dia akan bercerita juga. Aku menanti dan masih menanti saat itu. Tidak susah untuk memahami dan menghormati pendirian seorang kawan. Beranggapan baik dengan tindakannya sudah memadai. Tapi kenapa dia tidak boleh beranggapan seperti itu padaku dahulu? Salah aku kah itu?

Kalau diikutkan hati panasku, tak ingin aku ada kawan sepertinya lagi. Tapi akal warasku memujuk....dia masih seorang kawan, seorang teman dan seorang sahabatku...hormati apa jua tindakannya dan terima dia seadanya.....

~ ada kala kesilapan seseorang tercipta tanpa disedari, begitu juga ada kala kita memaafkan kesalahan orang pun tanpa kita sedari juga~ (sepi pun datang....oct 2009)

12 Ramadhan = 12 Months

My little sweet pie is 12 months on 12 Ramadhan. Yes! she was born premature weighing 1.06kg on 12 Ramadhan last year at 11.05 friday morning. She is now 10.5kg........and mama rasa lengan ni dh naik muscle....weightlifting hari2....:D

Alhamdulillah...thank you Allah for giving me this wonderful experience. She hardly fell sick after being discharged from the NICU 10 months ago. I think maybe Allah has stop all painful that she had gone through throughout the 2 months in the NICU (apnea, anemia...and the list goes). Since past 12 months she only had twice of high fever. 1 in mid may when she started to mix up with her 'skool' frends and 1 on wednesday which fall on her 1st birthday.

As she is premature, she develops so well. Her interactions with people (her mama, papa and of course her tok nyang) are quite good. She hardly smile to strangers (like me). She would love to taste everything which she can grab. Last week when meeting the paeds in Selayang he was so impressed with her development. Habih brg2 doc kena kaco atas meja. Ganaz betoi anak mama nih.

She is still in a process taking solids. She refused the cereal bought on the shelf. She would only take mashed potatoes and apple sauce which cooked by mama and mushroom soup too....(sungguh demand ini budak). And she loves kurma/dates.

She wants to be hugged before she sleeps (kat skool tak plak macam tu. Independent jerk).

We had a pre-birthday celebration last Sunday at my mom's house. (Pic will upload later)

So enjoy some latest pic of her. This was taken by Kak Hani when i met her in KL last month.

Muka baru mangkit tidoq

Menten....

Menten lagik....

Mula dah pegang mama sambil posing...

Kening dah berkerut2........

Daaaaaannnnnnnnn............truih sebek...hahahaha

Huduh laaaaa..........mama rasa mcm da pic mama kecik2 dolu ngn tok camni...nanti nak godek2 album lama :D

Pergi Tak Kembali

Setiap insan pasti merasa
Saat perpisahan terakhir
Dunia yang fana akan ditinggalkan
Hanya amalan yang akan dibawa

Terdengar sayup surah dibaca
Sayunya alunan suara
Cemas di dada lemah tak bermaya
Terbuka hijab di depan mata

Selamat tinggal pada semua
Berpisah kita selamanya
Kita tak sama nasib di sana
Baiklah atau sebaliknya

Amalan dan taqwa jadi bekalan
Sejahtera, bahagia pulang...kesana

Sekujur badan berselimut putih
Rebah bersemadi sendiri
Mengharap kasih anak dan isteri
Apa mungkin pahala dikirim

Terbaring sempit seluas pusara
Soal bicara terus bermula
Sesal dan insaf tak berguna lagi
Hancurlah jasad dimamah bumi

Berpisah sudah segalanya
Yang tinggal hanyalah kanangan
Diiringi doa dan air mata
Yang pergi takkan ke mbali lagi

Lagu ini pertama kali ku dengar sekitar penghujung 90-an. Ketika itu aku masih belajar di Shah Alam. It was a great song. I really enjoyed listening to it. Mengingatkan tentang mati, tentang amalan, tentang dosa, tentang doaku sebagai anak kepada arwah abah. It reminds me everything while listening to the song. Bila masaku akan tiba? Bagaimana aku mati? Siapa yang akan berada sisiku saat kematianku? Siapa yang akan mendoakan ku nanti? Semuanya menjadi persoalan yang akhirnya akan menyebabkan aku mengalirkan air mata.

Andai aku diberi peluang, aku tidak mahu mati sekarang kerana dosaku masih belum terampun.

Ustaz Asri yang aku kenali hanya pada luaran cukup istimewa kurasakan. Alunan suara yg merdu membuatkan hati tersentuh dan terus insaf dengan kekurangan diri yang ada. Hilangnya dia dari dunia yang fana ini menjadikan seolah-olah sepi dunia dari alunan merdu suaranya yang mengajak kita ke arah kebaikan.

Hati ini amat tersentuh. Dialah artis pertama yang kutangisi kehilangan.Bagiku, dia bukan artis. Dia lebih kepada seorang ustaz yang mengajak kita sentiasa mengingati Allah.

Buat Puan Haliza dan anak2....takziah kuucapkan. Semoga rohnya ditempatkan disyurga bersama-sama dengan Rasulullah dan sahabat2nya. Tabahlah ummi dan anak2 mengharungi cabaran dan dugaan hidup tanpa suami dan abi tersayang. .....Al-Fathihah....


Petikan dari blog Ustaz Asri Ibrahim........

"Aku adalah pengejar syurga akhirat, bagiku dunia ini adalah tempat mempersiapkan segala sesuatu untuk meraih syurga akhirat; aku yakin bahawa syurga akhirat tidak akan pernah dapat aku raih kecuali aku boleh menikmati syurga dunia terlebih dahulu. Maka rumah dan keluargaku adalah syurga dunia paling indah buatku. Tempat kerja syurga dunia harianku. Tetangga, masyarakat,dan bangsa adalah syurga duniaku yang lebih luas. Ke manapun dan sampai bila-bila pun syurgaku selalu bersamaku."

I don't wanna miss a thing!

I miss!!! I miss to write something here. To share my views, my feelings, my thought here with some few GOOD FRIENDS....YES! YOU, YOU AND YOU are my GOOD FRIENDS. NOT YOU and YOU which i don't think i need to describe here. (YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!)

However, due to my busy schedule, my works, my family and our new house makes me unable to write a single word here.

Will be back soon with a very looooooonnnnnggggg....... lists of views, feelings and thoughts to share with.


Love Note :

1. To my good friend INA, be strong as we also can't wait for you to reunite with your love ones, Maisara and daddy.

2. To my another good friend TINI, our prayers are with you. hopefully the IUI is successful

1st Zoo Negara Visit

Last month Mama n her ZARS geng had a planning for a get together. It was like after 2-3 years all of them never met. Normally Mama goes for a date with Aunty Seri n Aunty Tini. It was merely 3 years they haven't meet Aunty Ina and a year meeting Aunty Edda.

They were keep emailing each other for 2 weeks and talking about this trip almost everyday. They were so excited compared to the kids (we just follow, anyway :D)

On the day, Mama cooked sambal tumis udang and bought Choc Walnut cake for Aunty Seri's birthday. Aunty Ina brought drinks and 'kudap-kudapan', Aunty Tini cooked nasik lemak, Aunty Seri bring dessert and Aunty Edda with her fried chicken.

Everybody had brunch at one of the air-conditioned 'tent'. Unfortunately, Mama forgot her plates and Aunty Ina had left the cups at home. Aiyyyaaaaaaaaa.............everybody need to eat using the 'tudung tepawer' and few other food containers and drink using feeding bottles cup. Adessssss...........lawak betoi laaaaaaa...........planning skit punya baguih tapi lupo plak nak bwk menda plg penting dlm dunia.

Here's some pics taken from Aunty Tini's n Uncle Zul's camera and they are doing photography services too.......so if u want affordable photographer with good pics.....hurry n grab them :))

So Aunties...........where's next? ;))

Let's go Mama....i'm ready for the adventure ;)

Alamak....seems Mama needs to get a bigger buggy now!


With Aunty Tini, Aunty Seri, Uncle Malik n Kakak Sarah


Jalan 5 menet sumer sudah duduk....tak fit langsung...hahahaha...

Wait Uncle!!!! i'm not ready laaaaa.........

Sudah kenyang....so blh jalan.... :D

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My Darling Princess

Just for Aunty Umi who can't wait to see lil Humaira Safiyyah in person.......(ekceli kan Aunty...mama lost her camera...couldn't take pics anymore....huhuhuhu)

Ternganga tgk flash

Mood baik nak pi jenjalan

Adehhh........lapaq plak aih...bila mama nk bg susu tah

Aiiiyaaaaaa........terpenyet........

Baru mangkit tidoq.....skit punya lawa mama bg pakai baju last2 lena dr kui 12 smpi 3.30

Contraception

Due to my previous pregnancy complication, i was adviced by the obgyn to not to conceive within 2 years after i gave birth to my baby.

At first, i asked a few frends about the contraceptive and there few answers are here. After a false alarm trigger (my menses were 2 months late early this year) i met a gynae in KMC. She advised me to take Yasmin, an oral contraceptive. Took those pills for 2 months, unfortunately doesn't suits me. I can easily had headache, extreme pain during menses and mood 'swing' due to the hormones pills.

I stop for about 2 months and end of May i went to meet an obgyn in Tawakal. After listening to my very loooooooongggggggg..............story of my medical history, he advised me to take pills similar to implanon daily non stop.

Why implanon type of pills? He told me that Yasmin is the lowest dosage in Oral contraception family, if i am unable to suit Yasmin, definately i cannot 'tahan' with other type/brand of oral contraception.

IUD is not suitable for me as i can easily infected as per his diagnose with my PPROM during my pregnancy.

So both is no-no for me.

I was prescribed with Noriday, an oral type implanon. Been taking it for merely 1 month now and i seems ok with this but my menses will be differ than before. I may or may not have menstruation. As implanon is to maintain ovulation, i may not get pregnant during my consumption of these pills, however there are few cases that may caused pregnancy during the consumption of the pills.

Hope everything will be fine and i am ready for another pregnancy when my little princess reached 2 years of age.

Still here..........

Just realized that it's been a month since i wrote my few words here. Since May 15th i've been very busy at work and home. Lots of things to do here and there and i ended up being so tired end of every day.

I have thousands of words to write here hence need some peaceful time and mind to write. Will be back soon!!!!!!!!


# :Macam la ada org nk baca blog aku nih :D.........yg menyibuk dan dok mengata kat aku memang ramai......macam makcik gemok dan makcik kurus tuuuuuuuu...............

1st week @ day care

Aduiii.......lamanya tak apdet blog. Takdan la sejak keja nih. Kat ofis xleh suka suki nak online sbb kena login id segala....dah la tgh appraisal nih...mau kena downgrade satgi :D

Immediately mama sent lil Humaira Safiyyah in her day care (tok panggil sekolah), i went up to 21st floor, to my department just for a standby in case if any complications.....ngeeee......i wa as so nervous for the first few hours. Sempat la mana nak online sat, chat few words with colleague etc and at 12 sharp switched the notebook off and ready to fetch her. Upon arrival, i see her on her tummy position doing her own thing. Kesian anak mama takdak orang layan. That was my first thought. Later i brought her back home. Adussss.....lepas seksaan hari ni.

2nd day i fetch her @ 1.00pm immediately after having lunch with few friends. the caretaker said she did quite well. not so demanding but only cry for milk. Baiknya anak mama nih....cayang la mama.....

3rd day mama fetch her quite late, around 4pm after had such a wonderful makan2 with aunty tini n aunty seri. Depa 2 cuti for wesak day. Mama ended with stomache ache after had ayam penyet. Agaknya pedas sgt kot....sejak lps beranak ni mama punya perut quite sensitive to spicy food la

Her 1st day away from Mama

This morning i sent my lil Humaira Safiyyah to child care centre. Located at 1st floor, the same building at my work place. It is provided by the employer to their staffs. It's kinda orietation for her to get used with the taska (orientation for mama actually) as my very long leave will end next week and will be back to work on May 15th.

We arrived around 8.10am and i left the centre at 8.30. This is the 1st time i left her with a childminder. Normally i left her with my mother not more than 3 hours. Dan-dan tu jugak la mama ni sebak sangat rasanya. Sedih sgt sebab terpaksa berpisah dgn anak. Cemana la anak dara aku yang seorang itu hari ni. I hope she's doing well.

Will fetch her at 12.30 today........mama sedey nihhhhh.....kepala asik dok ingat dia ja

Contraception

Open for discussion...to all mothers...what say you on this? What would you prefer? Pills, IUD, or implan?

I will do some research and will write on my blog and will publish your comment here.

Don't Touch My Baby!

Giving birth to a preemies made me extra cautious on everything especially the hygienic part. My husband and i will ensure that our hands are properly washed before touching our baby, her feeding bottles as well as her milk. Besides, most of the thing must be very clean to avoid any infections on our baby.

During her first few months, i refused to let other peoples touching her to maintain the level of hygiene. No touching, no kissing etc. We only allow both grandmas visiting us touching her but not to kiss her. How cruel we were that time. But it is for her own good as she is highly infected. Until now, we keep the same practise which we won't simply let other peoples touching her especially peoples who had running nose, fever and cough (kesian Aunty Seri, 1st time jumpa Humaira takleh pegang dia...mujoq aunty paham)

Yesterday, we sent a frend of my niece to the Alor Star airport and later i drove the car to Tesco Mergong, Kedah. I love to do shopping there as the diaper is chepaer than in Perlis. So do the formula. While walking aisle by aisle, there was a lady staff there passed by us and she asked me how old my baby is and i told her 6 mths (lupa daaaa.........anakku sudah 7 bulan kemarin) and she suddenly trying to touch my baby's cheek. Immediately i told her, "do not touch my baby, please! you must be very hygiene to touch her!". Entah tangan dia dari mana2 nak mai pegang anak aku. She immediately walked off then. Mesti dia kata aku sombong. Tapi lantak pi la....janji anak aku sihat.

The other reason i refused to allow peoples touching her cheek is because she loves to put her fingers (more than 1 finger ya aunty2....) to her mouth and later all the saliva will running out from her mouth to her cheek and her chest....belemoih la anak daraku nan seorang inin.....so, if other peoples touch her cheek, i am afraid that the bacteria will infected her saliva and later to her mouth,her lung etc. Sungguh cengeng aku ini (meminjam ayat kak anne)

To mothers who are having infants, please be 'kedekut' to others. Don't simply let peoples touching or kissing your baby to avoid any unnecessary incident happend to your baby. Besides, if you or your family had running nose, fever or cough please use face mask while handling the baby. There was a case in NICU where a healthy baby girl was born and 1 month later 80% of her lung damaged due to infections of running nose & cough of her elder sibling as well as her father. She lives will a life support machine and i don't know what happened to her as when my baby was discharged, she is still on life support machine.

Anakku Dah Besar

My baby now is 6 months old. There's lot of development on her since her 1st day of life. She smiles, she speaks in her own words, she cries, she shouts, she moves left n right, moves her head upwards. She is also being able to sit with aided and wants to sit up straight no sandaq2. when i put her in the walker, she can move left and right and back but yet to move forward.As she reaches 6 months, she has another appointment with the paeds in Hospital Selayang for her development and progress. As we are staying with my mom at the moment, my husband and i decided that both me and my baby travel by air instead of by land which only takes 50 minutes to reach KL.

We landed in KLIA on tuesday afternoon at 12.00 noon. Merely 3 hours delay due to bad wheather. Papa was waiting since 9.00am at the airport and he hates waiting (masa dok deting dolu2 pon asik kena tembak ja mama nih sebab timing lari..hehehehe). Lil Humaira Safiyyah's check up at Hospital Selayang on the day after.

At the clinic she is weight and her heigth/length was noted. She is now 8.28kg and 61cm long. Dah besaq la anak mama nih. As most of her clothes are thight, we need to get new clothes for her and yesterday nite we went to do some shopping at the Reject Shop One Utama. I dont really go for local brand such as Anakku, Tollyjoy etc as the sizes are quite smaller than it should be and the material quality is not so good compared to the one from Reject Shop (bukan la reject sgt pon. Paling2 terlebih benang ka, just some minor error yg kita tak noticed) and the most important thing is cheaper than local brand.

Memandangkan anakku yang cepat membesar ini, teringin plak aku nak jait baju dia sendiri, her soft toys..bestnyaaaaaa.......harap2 impian menjadi kenyataan...

We are leaving this tuesday and Papa will be back for my bro's wedding end of the month and we will be back to KL for good. Lepas balik ni mama kena la bertungkus lumus packing barang untuk pindah. Adesssss...........pindah lagi...hopefully takyah pindah dah la pasni :D

Kabinet Baru

Saya ingin bercakap tentang kabinet baru....bukan kabinet dapoq yer tuan-tuan dan puan-puan tapi Barisan Menteri Kabinet yang baru selepas Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak menjadi Perdana Menteri Malaysia ke-6 awal bulan ini.

Sebagai Perdanan Menteri Malaysia, beliau dipertanggungjawabkan untuk mengumumkan senarai Menteri Kabinet yang baru setelah mendapat perkenan ke bawah Duli Yang Maha Mulia Seri Paduka Baginda Yang Di Pertuan Agong Sultan Mizan Zainal Abidin.

Senarai lengkap Menteri Kabinet yang baru adalah seperti berikut :

PERDANA MENTERI: Datuk Seri Najib Razak TIMBALAN PERDANA MENTERI: Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin MENTERI DI JABATAN PERDANA MENTERI 1. Tan Sri Dr Koh Tsu Koon (Hal Ehwal Perpaduan & Pengurusan Prestasi) 2. Datuk Seri Mohamed Nazri Abdul Aziz (Hal Ehwal Perundangan dan Parlimen) 3. Tan Sri Nor Mohamed Yakcop (Unit Perancang Ekonomi) 4. Mej-Jen (B) Datuk Jamil Khir Baharom (Hal Ehwal Agama Islam) Timbalan-timbalan Menteri: 1. Datuk Liew Vui Keong 2. Datuk Dr Mashitah Ibrahim 3. Datuk S.K. Devamany 4. Ahmad Maslan 5. T.Murugiah MENTERI KEWANGAN: Datuk Seri Najib Razak MENTERI KEWANGAN II: DATUK AHMAD HUSNI MOHAMAD HANADZLAH Timbalan: 1. Datuk Chor Chee Heung 2. Datuk Dr Awang Adek Hussin MENTERI PELAJARAN: Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin Timbalan: 1. Datuk Dr Wee Ka Siong 2. Dr Mohd Puad Zarkashi MENTERI PENGANGKUTAN: Datuk Ong Tee Keat Timbalan: 1. Datuk Abdul Rahim Bakri 2. Datuk Robert Lau Hoi Chew MENTERI PERUSAHAAN, PERLADANGAN DAN KOMODITI: Tan Sri Bernard Dompok Timbalan: 1. Datuk Hamzah Zainudin MENTERI DALAM NEGERI: Datuk Seri Hishammuddin Hussein Timbalan: 1. Datuk Wira Abu Seman Yusop 2. Jelaing anak Mersat MENTERI PENERANGAN, KOMUNIKASI, KESENIAN DAN KEBUDAYAAN: Datuk Seri Utama Dr Rais Yatim Timbalan: 1. Datuk Joseph Salang Gandum 2. Senator Heng Seai Kie MENTERI TENAGA, TEKNOLOGI HIJAU DAN AIR: Datuk Peter Chin Fah Kui Timbalan: Noriah Kasnon MENTERI KEMAJUAN LUAR BANDAR DAN WILAYAH: Datuk Seri Shafie Apdal Timbalan: 1. Datuk Hassan Malek 2. Datuk Joseph Entulu anak Belaun MENTERI PENGAJIAN TINGGI: Datuk Seri Mohd Khaled Nordin Timbalan: 1. Datuk Dr Hou Kok Chung 2. Datuk Saifuddin Abdullah MENTERI PERDAGANGAN ANTARABANGSA DAN INDUSTRI: Datuk Mustapa Mohamed Timbalan: 1. Datuk Mukhriz Mahathir 2. Datuk Jacob Dungau Sagan MENTERI SAINS, TEKNOLOGI DAN INNOVASI: Datuk Dr Maximus Ongkili Timbalan: Fadillah Yusof MENTERI SUMBER ASLI DAN ALAM SEKITAR: Datuk Douglas Uggah Embas Timbalan: Tan Sri Joseph Kurup MENTERI PELANCONGAN: Datuk Ng Yen Yen Timbalan: Datuk Seri Sulaiman Abdul Rahman Abdul Taib MENTERI PERTANIAN DAN INDUSTRI ASAS TANI: Datuk Noh Omar Timbalan: 1. Datuk Johari Baharum 2. Datuk Rohani Abdul Karim MENTERI PERTAHANAN: Datuk Seri Dr Ahmad Zahid Hamidi Timbalan: Datuk Dr Abdul Latiff Ahmad MENTERI KERJA RAYA: Datuk Shaziman Abu Mansor Timbalan: Datuk Yong Khoon Seng MENTERI KESIHATAN: Datuk Liow Tiong Lai Timbalan: Datuk Rosnah Rashid Shirlin MENTERI BELIA DAN SUKAN: Datuk Ahmad Shabery Cheek Timbalan: 1. Datuk Razali Ibrahim 2. Wee Jeck Seng MENTERI SUMBER MANUSIA: Datuk Dr S.Subramaniam Timbalan: Datuk Maznah Mazlan MENTERI PERDAGANGAN DALAM NEGERI DAN HAL EHWAL PENGGUNA: Datuk Ismail Sabri Yaakob Timbalan: Datuk Tan Lian Hoe MENTERI PERUMAHAN DAN KERAJAAN TEMPATAN: Datuk Kong Cho Ha Timbalan: Datuk Lajim Ukin MENTERI PEMBANGUNAN WANITA, KELUARGA DAN MASYARAKAT: Datuk Seri Sharizat Jalil Timbalan: Datin Paduka Chew Mei Fun MENTERI LUAR: Datuk Anifah Aman Timbalan: 1. A.Kohilan Pillay 2. Datuk Lee Chee Leong MENTERI WILAYAH PERSEKUTUAN: Datuk Raja Nong Chik Raja Zainal Abidin Timbalan: Datuk M.Saravanan Walaubagaimanapun, 8 menteri sebelum ini digugurkan daripada senarai kabinet terkini. Mereka adalah : 1. Menteri Dalam Negeri - Datuk Seri Syed Hamid Albar 2.Menteri Kerja Raya - Datuk Ir. Mohd. Zin Mohamad (baru setahun memegang jawatan menteri selepas pilihanraya 2008) 3. Menteri Pelancongan - Datuk Azalina Othman Said (Juga baru setahun memegang portfolio sebagai menteri pelancongan) 4. Menteri Kemajuan Luar Bandar dan Wilayah - Tan Sri Muhammad Muhd. Taib (dahulunya bekas MB Selangor) 5. Menteri Wilayah Persekutuan - Datuk Seri Zulhasnan Rafique 6. Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri - Datuk Amrisham A.Aziz (Bekas Presiden & CEO Maybank) 7. Menteri Perdagangan Dalam Negeri dan Hal Ehwal Pengguna -Datuk Shahrir Abdul Samad 8.Menteri Perumahan dan Kerajaan Tempatan, Datuk Ong Ka Chuan.

Agak sedikit janggal pada barisan menteri pada kali ini kerana Ketua Pemuda Umno, Khairy Jamaluddin tidak memegang mana-mana jawatan menteri kabinet kerana selalunya, ketua wanita dan pemuda akan diberi jawatan menteri penuh atau timbalan menteri. Kali ini 3 wakil daripada Wanita Umno memegang jawatan di dalam kabinet iaitu Datuk Shahrizat Jalil, Datuk Maznah Mazlan dan Noriah Kasno. Tahniah kepada ketiga-tiga wakil daripada sayap wanita Umno Malaysia. Kepada semua mentei baru yang dilantik, tahniah dan selamat menjalankan tanggungjawab yang diberikan dengan penuh dedikasi,amanah dan beretika.

Tagged from Facebook

My fren, Alin tagged me in the Facebook. Rasa malas nak jawab kat sana..jawab kt sini pun ok la kot...here it goes...

Here's a chance to see how well you really know your husband. Cut, paste and fill in the answers, then shoot, you know what to do. The real challenge is to send it to your husband to see how right you really are. Tag friends to complete it as well!

1. He's sitting in front of the TV, what is on the screen?
Bernama TV, ESPN & other sports channel on ASTRO

2. You're out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
He doesn't really take salad but normally he would have salad with thousand island dressing

3. What's one food he doesn't like?
Masak tumis air/bening/sayoq manis

4. You go out to eat and have a drink. What does he order?
Nasik.....teh o suam kurang manis/carrot susu

5. Where did he go to high school?
Al Madrasah AL Alawiyah Addiniah, Arau Perlis (me..tak suka budak skolah agama....alim la kununnnnnnn........)

6. What size shoe does he wear?
8

7. If he was to collect anything, what would it be?
Miniature of cars

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich?
Doesn't really like sandwich...i normally make him sardines/egg sandwich

9. What would this person eat every day if he could?
Nasi + Megi kari + lots of vege

10. What is his favorite cereal?
None

11. What would he never wear?
Bright color shirt

12. What is his favorite sports team?
Man U

13. Who did he vote for?
Parti Islam Se Malaysia

14. Who is his best friend?
His brother i guess (he never mentioned actually)

15. What is something you do that he wishes you wouldn't do?
Malas lipat baju :D

16. What is his heritage?
Kedah born...both sides from Kedah

17. What is his favourite colour?
Itam itu menawan

18. What is his habit?
Makan bola, tidoq bola, ROKOK!!!!!

19. What is he proud of?
Me n our baby (am i rite, Pa?)

20. Lastly, do you think he will read this?
He will curi2 read my blog when i left the notebook unattended

Pulangkan!!!!!!!!!!!!

I received a phone call from my mother this afternoon at 1.00pm telling me that she lost her cash in her purse. I immediately checked my handbag and found out that my cash and digicam were missing. Adoi laaaaaaaaaa....................

To tell the truth, i only have RM300.00 in my purse which i need it this sunday to bring my daughter for her monthly check up. Besides, i need to get her a walker and half of it i need a bumbo chair for her when i returned to KL next month. Unfortunately, this culprit took all my money and only left RM1.50 for me.Celaka betoiiiiiiiii...........seringgit lima kupang nak beli roti gardenia pun x dapat laaaa.......

My digicam is one of the most precious thing i've ever had. I bought it using my bonus which i received for FYE 2007. It was Olympus 790SW. I recorded my engagement, my wedding and my precious moments with our little princess since she was born.Luckily i managed to uplod all pic of her last sunday to our laptop.Kalo tak mmg lagi mengamuk la aku.


We went to do a police report and the investigation officer told us that this maybe done by a person who knows us. Might be our relative. I think i know who the person is. (Memang aku dh buat report dah pun sapa yg aku suspect tuh.) That person only went in to my mom's room but not my room. I was so lucky as i left my wedding ring,my engagement ring and a bracelet which my mom gave to me on my 17th birthday on the table in the room. Kalo yang tu ilang gak kompom aku pi bom rumah dia.

Tapi takpa....aku akan dapat balik kamera aku tuh....ampess tolll!!!!!!!!!! Duit tu aku x halal hang amik...dah la bg mkn anak bini....silap2 hangpa pi mana2 eksiden mampuih pi anak beranak!!!!!!!

Dan Mama menangis lagi...

My husband arrived on friday morning around 7.45am. He was here for 4 days and left this afternoon.

He took extra 2 days leave to spend more time with us plus attending his cousin's wedding in Kulim, Kedah. Upon arrival at the bus station, the happiest person was definately me and later when he reached home, our little Humaira Safiyyah was so extremely happy to see her papa. We can see tru how did she hug her papa that morning (anak daraku tak mudah didekati org yg dia x kenai)

Later in the afternoon we left for Alor Setar for shopping and overnite at my inlaws' place. We returned to my mom's house saturday evening.

I was so glad when he is here with us as i missed him so much. But when he left this afternoon i felt so lonely and when our little princess looking for her papa this evening made me sad. She refused to take milk, refused to be seated and even to be carry around by her tok. Later i called her papa and let him talk to her. Immediately when she hear papa's voice, she made some sounds as she is telling her papa something and when papa ask her not to cry and be good, she immediately keep quiet and 15 minutes later sleeps in my arms.

I can't stop my tears tonite and keep thinking of him again. I miss him alot. I can't afford to stay apart any longer. If our little princess miss her papa, i miss him more than she does. I can't wait to be with him again. I never had this kind of feeling, not even when we were dating before.

Pa, i miss u alot..........

Baby Sign Language & Flash Cards

My little princess is 6 moths old tommorrow. Currently she is able to sit with aided. However, she seems doesn't interested in toys (maybe benda2 yg dibeli tak menarik minat dia kot). She will grip anything near her but still unable to grip any bigger items.This haunted me as other babies at her age really love soft toys. She only interested if peoples talk to her. She will definately reply back with her own language with smiles n laughter.

For preemies, it is normal for them to develop slower than normal babies but to avoid delay in her development, i decided to do something. Therefore, i begin with introducing baby sign language as well as flash cards to stimulate her.

What is baby sign language? (adapted from Babies n Sign Language)

"Baby sign language is a method in which you and your infant (or toddler) use specific handshapes and motions to convey words and meaning (quickly and easily) with each other. These exact handshapes and motions are executed typically using American Sign Language.

This special type of communication significantly reduces frustration for your darling little one.

Most babies can hear but do not yet have the physical ability to speak more than a few words, if any. Since speech is formed through the use of trained vocal chords, most babies can only form basic sounds. Communication is difficult (at first) and is usually made up of unintelligible noises and hand gestures. When frustrated, communication dissolves into crying, whining and sometimes tantrums. When Baby is frustrated, so are Mommy and Daddy.

Sometimes when you look at the familiar in a new way, great ideas are formed. Hearing babies have been signing with their Deaf parents for ages.

Two researchers looked at American Sign Language (ASL), and at a baby's form of communication, and saw compatibility. As a result of the pioneer research by the team comprised of Linda Acredolo and Susan Goodwyn, and (later years), of Joseph Garcia, Baby Sign Language was 'discovered' and developed.

Also called infant sign language, baby sign, and sign language for babies, Baby Sign Language is composed of baby hand and finger signs that indicate words, concepts, and ideas babies need and want to communicate. These are words like "hungry", "milk", "wet", "hurt", "sleepy", etc..."

I myself choose baby sign language because this will enable me to communicate with my baby as she prefer this way. Besides baby sign, i use flash cards to stimulate her. There are lots of websites that offer free downloads of flash cards to stimulate the babies' eyes and brains and i think this will benefit her as she has ROP before.

The other reason why i choose both methods because this is the most cheapest way to develop her as i can't afford expensive toys at the moment (soft toys yang berkualiti di Malaysia ni tersangat la mahalnyer yer!) I can only start buying her those toys only after i came back to work.

Bohong Sunat kot....

Conversation 1 : Me on the phone

Me : Halo...klinik ibu dan anak poliklinik Arau ka?

Ans : Ya...

Me : Cik, saya nak tanya...anak saya ni prem...bersalin kt Hospital Selayang...la ni saya balik dok di Perlis sebab saya cuti. Anak saya ni baru dapat suntikan pertama masa umoq dia 2 bulan. BCG & Hep B...yang lain belum lagi. Bulih dak saya nak pi cucuk disana? La ni umoq dia dah 5 bulan.

Ans : Oooo.......lepas ni nak balik KL plak bila?

Me : Saya nak balik bulan 5. Masa tu umoq dia dh 8 bulan.

Ans : Kalo lagu tu kami nak kena tanya Kangaq dulu la sebab ubat KL ngn ubat Perlih tak sama.

Me : ????????????????? Takpa la...saya check ngn Hospital Selayang..tima kasih



Conversation 2 : Me at Kedah Medical Centre

Me : Doc, klinik kerajaan takmo trima kes my baby sebab depa kata ubat KL n Perlis tak sama. Sebab tu i nak amik immunization kt sini.

Paed : Kenapa plak tak sama? Kita kat sini pun guna vaccine yg sama mcm kementerian kesihatan jugak. Schedule pun follow kementerian kesihatan. Macam mana plak ubat tak sama?

Me : I dunno....depa saja tak mo amik out station case la kot...menyusahkan depa


Betoi ka ubat tak sama? Setau aku semua ubat untuk Klinik Kesihatan Kerajaan sama ja sebab depa centralised. Cemana bulih tak sama plak?????? KL amik ubat Singapore, Perlih amik ubat siam la kot???

Mujoq la aku n anak aku dapat medical benefit laki aku. So that kami blh guna medical card for both outpatient n hospitalisation blh la pi private hospital. Kalo orang susah cemana? mana depa nak pi? mana depa nk dapat imunisasi utk anak depa. Bodow betoi la puak2 nih....mujoq la aku ckp ngn depa on the phone n pagi tu aku xdak mood sgt nk byk soal jawab. Kalo gamaknya aku pi Poliklinik Arau tuh mau bergegaq 1 Arau aku rasa....nak muhong pun ngn aku...kot hangpa nak muhong siam kok klang yg tak tau apa2 tu kot la depa percaya.....

p/s: Harap2 ada la bos kementerian kesihatan terbaca posting aku nih. Ajaq skit staff depa jgn nak muhong.....tapi pelik la..aku kt Hospital Selayang xdak pon mcm nih...kecuali la sorg dua misi yg tua dh nk pincin....ada la skit muka muncung...yang lain baik sesangat

Menobody

Dah lama tak lihat perkataan ni di mana2 since 2 years back...y? only me knows y and that person of course but i don't think that person came across with my blog anyway....

Since February 9th, i am totally be a different person........tak tentu arah and malas nak blogging and etc22222.......

My life is just me n my baby n truly at this time i really miss my husband. I miss him alot....(sedeyyyyy..........kontrol beb....kontroll....kang ada yg nmpk hang teriak sorg2)

I miss his morning kisses, his evening hugs, our cat fight everyday, our dinner together even as simple as bihun goreng, our solat jemaah n our mengaji time together. I wish he is here with me right now.

Imported Cars, Local Cars n Rear Seat Belt

My late father's 1st car was Mazda. Later he bought a Toyota Corolla KE30 when i was around 3-4 years of age. When i was 12, he bought a Proton Saga Megavalve and still keep the Corolla. When i was 16, my mom bought an Iswara Aeroback for herself (which became my car since Aug 2004). The first car driven by me when i was 17 was the old Toyota. No aircond,no cassette player. Just a normal radio player with only AM frequency. Now, since last year we drive a Chevy.

Me myself prefer a Toyota....an Estima to be specific or a Camry or a Yaris...Vios pun boleh la pa...;P (amboi napsuuuuuu.....hehehe......)...sudehhhhhhh...........merapu plak dah.......

This is the serious one. Since i gave birth to Humaira Safiyyah, i started to be very protective to my baby. We bought a car seat for her so that she will be able to travel safely with us. As we drive a Chevy, we never had any problem fastening rear seat belt to our baby's car seat. Both left or right and even on the front seat (masa 1st time drive bwk si kecik nih aku letak dia kt depan...skali jerk....2nd time n seterusnya truih boh kt blkg).Full stop!!!

Since past few weeks, i reside in my hometown at my mom's house with our little princess...this will be until early May. I rarely go out when staying here....reason....1st duit tarak...2nd takdak mana nak pi pon...Last saturday, my husband came back visiting us. So on sunday we went back to my in laws house in Alor Setar driving my mom's Perodua Kembara DVVT. Unfortunately, we wont be able to fastened the seat belt to the baby's seat, reason.....seat beltnya pendek!!!!!!! adoi laaaaaa......what i did was fastened it across the seat (not around the seat) and sandwich the baby's seat against the front and back seat. Harap2 ok la...pelik betoi aku apadehal jadi lagu tuh.

The government's new ruling on the rear seat belts make me think twice. Memula, memang teman setuju bebenor tentang pemakaian tali pinggang belakang nih. Tapi bila kena macam ni elok la depa setkan bench mark on standard length for rear seat belt tu dulu. Kalo dah tali pinggang pun tak selamat, cemana la nak mewajibkan orang pakai seat belt yang kunun2 untuk keselamatan penumpang tuh. Hmmmmmmm.......pelik betoi..

To local cars manufacturer...PERODUA,PROTON,INOKOM(for Hyundai) tulong la check rear seat belt yang anda pasang pada kereta yg anda jual tuh. Jgn la nk harap ke untung ataupun untuk sekadar hiasan ja sebab ramai org nk guna seat belt tuh utk keselamatan....takkan la kami nak beli keta hangpa pastu nak kena tambah duit tukaq seat belt lain kotttttt...........

To Malaysian government, tulong la buat study betoi2 untuk apa saja ruling yang hangpa nak buat...jgn jd follower ja...org len buat, hangpa pun nak buat!!!!!!!.........LU PIKIR LA SENDIRI

Tagged

Last month i was tagged by Kak Umi aka emaknya si chumie n qayyim. Due to internet connection yg ala2 macam bas PPMP (Pelan-pelan Mampuih Pi) kat perlih dulu nun terpaksa la dilupakan dulu. So now dh ada masa, blh ler teman menjawab tagging kak umi nih...


1. Copy Badge untuk diletakkan di blog anda.
The badge..



2. Link atau ceritakan kembali siapa yg memberikan award ini kepada anda.

Awarded by Kak Umi @ Tokyo. How did i know her? via AnakPerlis.Com...dia ni kawan sekampung la kiranya. At the moment being my kawan bergosip kisah2 panas seluruh dunia and kawan rujukan dan tempat meluahkan rasa. Tima kasih la kak umi....

3.Setiap blogger hendaklah menyatakan 10 fakta/hobi diri sendiri sebelum memilih pemenang seterusnya.

10 Fakta adalah seperti berikut....(chewahhhh...ala2 jawab soklan SPM plak)

1. Penah sampai ke Nihon masa umoq 16....student exchange. Tapi umoq 26 baru jejak kaki ke Johor...itu pun sampai Segamat jerk

2. Baru pandai masak gulai/kari daging sebulan yang lalu...selama ni cek tatau masak gulai daging....maluuuuu.....

3. Koleksi handbag lebih daripada kasut. Tak kisah la mahal ker murah janji menarik pada pandangan mata, cek sapu ajer...

4. My husband is not my 1st love, but he is my true love. (Ala2 ramai boyfren la masa dolu2 nih)

5. Penah buat slimming treatment few years back tapi tak kuruih pun....terbang duit cek beribu riban

6. Pas lesen kelas D (kereta) masa umoq 17....only managed to drive after SPM exam....1st car i drove was Toyota corolla KE30...plet no KM7310...mana la keta tu la nih....

7. Malas betoi nak lipat baju....selalu baju tu dok dalam bakul berhari2

8. Manja la tersangat...mengada2 pun ada gak kot....pantang kena marah ngn laki skit, mula la nak teriak....apadaaa........sensitipppp......

9. Masih berusaha untuk turunkan berat badan.....adesssss......bila la nk kuruih nihhh???

10. I was born Disabled. Tumit kiri tak boleh cecah lantai...ala2 rengkat skit.....recovered when i was 2...this was done traditionally tru massage. Arwah dah tukang urut tuh


Okkeh.........siappppp...........now nak 'mengetagged' lagi 10 maknusia

1. Tini da SPLITS (sori la cik tip...aku masih suka guna perkataan SPLITS tuh)
2. Ina
3. Mommy Sarah
4. Cik Mai
5. Kak Azie
6. Sharipah Leo
7. Hj Addie @ Brunei
8. Tursina
9. Anne tokey tepawer
10.